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Bronx, but ( resides in Washington DC), New York City, District Of Columbia , United States
Late 20 yr old city girl with big pipe dreams. I live for god, anime, coffee, rain boots and other things. I long to be a trader or stock analyst.

Thursday, October 30, 2014

National Cat Day

Hi all

Forgo to post this yesterday but it was national cat day and I wanted to post pic of my little cat baby girl. Her mom and dad loves her to pieces and everyday is cat day!!!! Hug your cat. xoxoxo


                                                 Mom and Tomo
                                          When I just found her.
                                                  She loves to be high up
                                                           Last week (lol) shes big now
                                               Also a few weeks ago,its nap time
                                            Drinking water a few weeks ago with her nana
                                                 All of this attention is making her tired.

Tuesday, October 21, 2014

A Yearly Dedication Post


Hey everyone! 
I wanted to quickly do this post because I have to thank someone as I do every year since she isn't here or me to say thank you to. Today she would of been in her late 50s and she was my breath of fresh air.Many do not know that she is the one who gave me the idea for my coffee blog! So she deserves all of the credit. I don't like posting pic of my baby self lol Not because I wasn't cute its because shes in them. Missing her is real and you know each year I will remember that a blog is more than a bunch of opinions, its more on how you feel about fun and important things and sharing the good with the bad. And knowing that others feel as you do at times. 




                                           I keep this picture on my tablet background. She loved
                                           this picture, we we were just getting up she said.
                                                            Thats me !!!! So cute, ik ik
                                           And me now!! coffee is gold thanks mom and auntie
                                           This is me last year on my bday. She would of ate
                                            this pic up. I look like the baby she thought I was.


In all, thank you auntie for believing in my writing ability and others thank you also. So until next year and more pictures that I am currently digitally fixing, I will continue blogging. She would not want it any other way.

Your spoiled niece
Jen xoxoxoxo

Saturday, October 11, 2014

Little Dragon Concert Wear

Hey everyone

I am between work and a cup (huge) of epresso so I decided to share my second  concert outfit post. If you know me, I have been for a very long time (since they first started) a fan of the group Little Dragon. You know how city folks have access to it all so I heard them way before a lot of people and I really like and respect this band. I saw them this past Wednesday and I was so happy. Kind of sad I had to go alone because I am in new state but its okay I so stuck out like a sore thumb. I am glad I did lol It was a wonderful. concert. Unlike many I knew every song and yeah danced on beat lol ( let me stop) but yes I will say this: Dont be afraid to show your style to the world. Im from a city that doesnt care so I wouldn't be any different in a new place. But yes though I have ran into to many hateful people here I will take this back when I move and realize how good I have/had it. Its the happiest I have been since I moved here.  Without further ado...

PS: My dress is from Anthroplogie. My sister did my makeup she draws very well so I thought why not let her draw on moi face lol Its Santigolds' eyeliner from smash box.






Thursday, October 2, 2014

Catching up

Hi all

I have a little bit of time so I decided to chat a bit. I have some things to share with you since I have'nt been in a while. I am so confused because all of my saved websites are all over the place, or I forget to bookmark them there goes my sharing. ( I try not to consume a lot of web cookies) Now on to some rambling.

First off, I have heard of this website named Bustle.com, and would read things off it from other peoples Pintrest and would then post it my Pintrest but never explored. So I have and I still am and there are so many funny and just great articles up here and the best part........no comment section!

Yes hear me out, I am not a fan of comments because of how hurtful and smart some people want and will be. Do I lose sleep at night? No but it does make you wonder how messed up the human mind is and  individuals who are suppose to be well in the know. Sadly they are very annoying.

Now comment if I am wrong, but I have read 7 articles and there is no comment section. A huge sigh of relief. So I will share some of them with you and a quick thought.

Target  okay this one is so funny and very true, I can really relate to almost everything. Clothing are a totally hit or miss there with me since I wear double digits so again its very rare if I even look and find and buy without taking back very mad. I also would like to add a few things to her lovely list....Starbucks!  is one and there are a lot of them in Targets now and its my excuse to go also. I will go before and after shopping so I don't have to fight the drive thru lines or rude people in line in the actual Starbucks. I have only had one bad experience in a target one so hey its worth going. Cat food , hair products and food, oh not to mention the great clearance sections are others.




Plus Size Articles   I just have one link here but there are a few and I see how wonderful they look and how sweet and straight to their points they were. I also love the swimsuit in the post and I need it!!! High rise, low rise, whatever rise I was never afraid, the beach is where I lose all emotion and found the emotion " love" and " sea side food love" That is all I can say lol.(Ever been to Coney Island on a hot day? ) Its like okay lets go , you carry me through he hot sand , we eat I run in the water, run back when waves come and I take very stunning pictures. Its a open close case for me. But this article does touch on how people are. Very judgmental , but remember they will no matter what, they spend too much time on you and not  their lives.


Workplace Manners  This one was perfect , because as I told a very nice young man in Starbucks: "Say sorry when you mean it, and also when its appropriate, me asking for extra is not your fault or a problem" If you get into a loop saying it then people will make you say it or feel like you have to when you do not. Not saying not to. Its when to say it. Sorry is when you have indeed did something morally bad or in other respects. Not oh  sorry I forgot to return your call ( or in my case email) I was busy if it was very important you would of found me and spoken with me. THE END


Mindy . What can I say , shes a doll and shes a woman of color and shes bigger than what Hollywood wants her and she does not care!!!!!! What can I not love about here? She reminds me of me. Her fashion and her nails and oh shape! Again. What is there not to love ?

Liu Wen Shes lovely and for her to be the spokes person for he Apple Watch, would be even cooler, so let me see how much more would it want me to buy the watch? Technology is lovely within itself. I hate jewelry but having that watch would make me " tech queen" what, they will obey...






So in conclusion, I have thought of you all and I will post soon!!!! I am having problems with life and it is on top of my busy life so you know I have to find peace, Korean hot rice cakes( with sesemee seed) and time to update both blogs xxxxx

Thursday, September 25, 2014

My first outing

Hi everyone,

I know I have been out, sorry I promise to catch up as soon as I catch up with my work. I promise! So, as you know I am in a new state for a few months (then going home) and I have not been out much. I have had a lot of rude people and I wish I could tell you all about it. But that would take too long so look at what I did the other day. The pictures below are from an outlet I went to! I had a ball at Off Saks Fifth, and Last Call Neiman Marcus. I am on a budget but I couldn't help the extra 40% it was calling my name. Oh did I mention there's a privately owned Sanrio store there? cute I did buy something out of there another post very soon I will show you. The total cost of my meal? : $14 and that's with tax!!!






Sunday, September 7, 2014

Brunch for two onegai? (Dreaming of Fridays fashion Inspiration)





Hi everyone

I so forgot to post this!Happy weekend, what did you do?
I didnt do much but I did catch up on work and homework and now I just want to share with you this week fashion inspiration.Since im getting closer to 30 everyone ask me so many questions that I get tired of hearing. Its the usual marriage and children. Also now among people who are professional on why I blog if it has no topic or area of interest?

I think I can answer this: I blog about how I feel. No fashion unless I am dressed up in the picture or food or anything. I am just doing as I always did speak on random things. My coffee blog is on coffee and other things too as I sip on my cup of coffee. But again I like it, I do it its not a full time job its my pass time.

 Now on to the other two: when i'm ready and I find someone that is worth my time and effort who supports me on everything I do and my choice of not wanting children then hey I will get married!!!! and spend lots of money on it and a JCrew dress!!!!! I love traveling , spending time with people and things, I feel as if children will slow me down and give me responsibilities I do not crave. No I will not change my mind and yes I am happy.

 Choice is something we are all born with the ability to think. I am complete and him and I would be a family and do things like the picture below. I like buying nice stuff and as I told a few people " Im fine being selfish buying too small swimsuits to wear in the tub at a nice NYC hotel and taking pics, and later buying nice dresses to wear to a Broadway show. All while drinking scotch/whisky. We are fine. Two is fine three is a crowd with too much responsibility"



Brunch for two onegai?


A Kickstarter Conversation ( Via Coffee Confessionals)

I wanted to post this on this blog too. If you read my other blog which a lot of you do, I have coffee conversations. Just random things that arise while im at the coffeehosue speaking . It can be about my cat and her new toys or how much I have a new love for Agave! This one is by special request.

"So today I was conversing about start ups or as they say "kick starters" I have helped a few, from Dear Kates yoga pants ( very cool) to some others. I am currently looking at one as we speak so I have to get the basics to let everyone know. But today's highlight is from England, and I was asked personally to tell everyone about it!!!!!!. 

Flimsymoon  is their name and Lingerie is their game!!!. 




Every woman loves to wear these things whether its in the house our under our favorite clothing!! so I ran across this via another blog and fell in love!



What really catches my eye is that you can have it made to order, which is a heaven sent for moi! Not to mention the look of each item has such a whimsical effect  on me. 



The project have 21 days to go and she needs help!!!!! Please check out their Kickstarter  and donate and also spread the word!!! 

I have donated and I hope the little help I bring will help them with their project. 

Its hard out here in the business world, but if we help each other and show as much support as we can then we can start having the little things things that we have always dreamed of owning at great prices!!!





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